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    July 5, 2023
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    Andrew Linden

Safeguarding Your Mental Health During a Contested Family Law Case

This article provides essential guidelines on how to safeguard your mental health amidst a high-conflict custody case or divorce under Washington State family law, emphasizing on self-care, maintaining perspective, and seeking professional help.

Navigating through a high-conflict custody case or divorce can be an emotionally tumultuous experience. Washington State family law recognizes the strain such proceedings can put on all parties involved, including the children. Amid the legal complexities and psychological hardships, it becomes imperative to safeguard your mental health. This article aims to offer guidance on how to prioritize mental well-being during these challenging times.

To start with, the paramount necessity is understanding the family law in Washington State. This state operates under the “best interests of the child” standard in custody cases. The court primarily considers factors that influence the child’s physical, emotional, and educational development. These can include the parents’ respective living conditions, mental and physical health, and willingness to support the child’s relationship with the other parent. Understanding these intricacies can help set realistic expectations, which, in turn, can alleviate stress and anxiety.

A crucial aspect to consider in protecting your mental health during this process is the concept of self-care. It’s often easy to overlook one’s own needs while focusing on the legal battle and the well-being of the child. However, it is important to remember that a healthy parent is better able to care for their child and manage the rigors of a court case. Self-care includes maintaining a balanced diet, regular exercise, sufficient sleep, and engaging in activities that bring joy and relaxation.

Next, consider seeking professional assistance for mental health support. Therapists and counselors can provide strategies to cope with stress, anxiety, and depression that often accompany a high-conflict divorce or custody case. Washington State has a wealth of resources available, including mental health professionals who specialize in divorce and family matters. If necessary, your attorney can help you find a suitable professional.

Moreover, it’s essential to find a skilled family law attorney who is experienced in dealing with high-conflict cases. An empathetic attorney who understands your emotional turmoil and advocates for your rights can help reduce stress. The attorney’s expertise will not only navigate the intricacies of the law but will also manage communications with the opposing party, thereby reducing your direct exposure to conflict.

Maintaining perspective is another vital aspect of safeguarding your mental health. It’s easy to get consumed by the details of the case and the bitterness that often ensues. However, remembering that this is a temporary phase can help. Consider the long-term impact of your actions and decisions on your children. Prioritize their emotional well-being and long-term relationship with both parents. In difficult moments, reminding yourself of this perspective can alleviate stress and provide a sense of purpose.

Mediation is another useful tool in Washington State family law. In high-conflict situations, mediation can provide a less adversarial environment to negotiate custody arrangements. The presence of a neutral third party can help manage disagreements and prevent unnecessary escalation of conflict. While this might not be possible in all cases, it’s worth exploring as a means to reduce stress and promote amicable resolutions.

Lastly, educating yourself about the legal process can also be beneficial. Understanding the steps involved, potential outcomes, and your rights under Washington State law can help manage anxiety and prepare you for the proceedings. Your attorney can provide resources to better understand your situation.

While going through a high-conflict custody case or divorce is challenging, remember that you are not alone. Washington State family law professionals, mental health practitioners, and support groups are available to help you navigate this difficult journey. Your mental health is paramount, not only for you but also for the well-being of your children. By prioritizing self-care, seeking professional help, maintaining perspective, and utilizing available resources, you can safeguard your mental health during this process.

If you are looking for legal guidance in the Seattle area, contact the Hemmat Law Group today at (206) 682-5200 to speak with a dedicated family law attorney. We have extensive experience dealing with family law matters of all shapes and sizes.

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Article by Andrew Linden
Associate Attorney